Had a little run-in with the new accountant last month. In a nutshell, through sloppy work, he got things mixed up. When I asked him to make changes, he grumbled about it not being worth the effort.
Then I get a file from the designer that’s too low-resolution to use. She used an inappropriate file format and got a sloppy result.
Ok, two instances of poor accuracy and sloppiness in a couple days makes a pattern! True, neither person did it on purpose, but the most important question for me is this: why am I experiencing this? Specifically: where am *I* being sloppy and low-res myself, so that I see it everywhere in my life?
The way energy works, you can’t even perceive something in the world unless it resonates with something inside you. If you are negative, you will bypass by the happy, easygoing people and situations and experience trouble and negative people. If you are positive, the negative people won’t notice you, or you them. You will only perceive positive people.
That’s a simple example, but this is a clear phenomenon and has been mentioned in holy texts, well, forever. I’ve seen it when helping my mentoring clients see and change these patterns in their lives. From 12 years of experience I knoew that once you recognize a pattern in your life, you can instantly change it by changing what’s inside you — the part the pattern resonates with.
Therefore, when you experience something unpleasant “out there” in the world like cheating, betrayal, heartbreak, skepticism, and lack of support, look within. Healers, for instance, often struggle with skeptics in their life… because some part of them is holding back in skepticism. Find that part and change it, and you can quickly change your life.
Example: A recent client of mine experienced a sudden influx of new clients who were “nightmares” (and they signed up for long-term services!) We drilled down to exactly the qualities that he found nightmarish, and identified where in his life he was experiencing those qualities himself. Many “aha”s later, I created an effective plan to resolve his personal issues. Within three weeks the clients all independently canceled their current and future appointments!
This is a powerful mechanism for changing the whole world, starting with exactly what you have power to change: lil’ ol’ you! Whatever you see as a problem “out there” is also a problem inside your mind, thought patterns, or mindset. (And if it’s been around long enough, it may be in your body, too.) Ask yourself in what way do I share these qualities, and how can I alleviate that within my mind, body, and life ? I guarantee if you really nail it, your outer life will change too.
By the way, I did find my inner sloppiness and changed it. So far, no more outer sloppiness. You can do this! Let me know how it goes.